Living or reading about it?

How do we know when we are simply distracting ourselves into believing we are living life fully?

reading, blogging or talking about things can give us the false feelings that are the same as doing the things. However, life is meant to be lived and not simply to go through the motions of.

i find that, it is easy for me to come up with excuses not to take risks or go do the things that I need to. Sometimes, it sounds good, considering the cost, or my mood or I am too tired, all are excuses that I seem to rely on, which ar simply masking my fear and justifies not taking risks.

What are the things in life you really want?

Make a list.

Maybe a relationship, better job, more friends, a better social life, healthy body and life?

Now what are you doing to block this from becoming a reality?

what excuses do you use?

What thinking do you need to change?

Are you planning for your success or failure?

Are you willing to do the work? everything worthwhile takes work. Are you willing to be honest with yourself?

Are you open to listen and learn new skills outside of your normal box and influence?